Saturday, May 8, 2010

Resolution not to whine :P

08May - I know I know.. I promised not to whine on my blog but hey -- sometimes our will is just not as strong as our resolution. So forgive me for today because I need a place to release and whine ha ha

Lately, I am really starting to understand the concept of the less you do the less you can do wrong.. Sometimes we keep thinking that if we try hard enough, we can do better and that eventually we might get it right. Now, I am coming to understand more and more that trying to do so is counter-productive as actually there is no chance that the person you think will eventually be pleased will ever be satisfied.

So... I am thinking to myself -- what do you do in situation like this? Does anyone have a solution?

Do we:
A) Just start prioritizing and doing the things that we want to do and not do anything that we do not want to. All for the sake that we will never again in placed in a position where we put our heart and soul into making others happy and only repaid with comments that it is just not good enough or that you are being a smarty pants?
Does all this stop you and change you from what naturally you will do for others?
B) Continue to forge on and stay true to your nature -- with the simple determination to stick to your principles? Be determined to follow what is right.

I mean when is it that you should be patient and when is it that you are considered a doormat?
When should you stand up for yourself and when should you just let it slide..

Arrggghhhhhh -- so confusing ha ha... Well I think that's enough whining..  Cest La Vie!!

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